THE INFLATED EGO

I wish for the simple things of life for in them I see the bigger things of life; that which is most important; a peace of mind. A life of quiescence; peaceful intervention and tranquility. No man made drama; dramatized by inflated egos. The peace I’ve found within is so comforting, as it overshadows the chaos of the human mind and ego. All the categorization and labels of what happiness is, I’ve disassembled them, because none fitted my description of happiness.

When one becomes detached from one’s circumstances, it becomes easier to derive the true meaning of happiness. Then I ask myself, should I achieve all the material ‘things’ that are missing from my life, would I be happy? The answer was ‘No,’ because they would only make me comfortable, and my happiness would have eluded me looking for it through my ego because ego is really the physical side of you that is attached to things, people, situations while happiness lives within your soul; a place where you find your spiritual balance…

You can quieten down the ego, but it can never be removed from you because it keeps you in check; aware, and of the ‘physical’ reality. However, the ego creates fear, grand illusions, delusion, surmounting chaotic panic attacks, and undermines us, so we must be disciplined in how to detach from it before it ruins us.

We go into counter attacks because the ego speak to us and lead us; our physical, into emotional and physical battles. We become possessive, filled with greed, hate, and jealousies of one another; who’s better than the other, when we become engrossed by our ego…

We feel the need to be protective, even defensive (over protective emotions), and in fearing, we become attached to things, feelings therefore becoming tied up in that chaotic aroma because it offers us that fake emotional security and stability, all of which are temporary.

We care what others think of us, how we will look in the eyes of others, the emotional dogma; the willingness to please and to never displease. This is such a small part of us that overshadows our powerful being and who we truly are; what we can achieve and reveal when we release the ego…and when we get ruled/overshadowed by it, we create conflict in our lives and those of others.

When others come into your own space with those insecurities, they create for you an uneasiness with their inflated ego; cramping up your space wih their polluted energies, and maximizing yours also; your ego, and until they release it, it will become/remain cyclic.

Don’t live your life based on valuation; of yourself or others; how others see you; their perceptions or even yours, based on your/their status; standing, how powerful and influential you/they are. Some of us can only function in this physical reality, and not outside of it based on our concept of life.

Ego stifles the unconditional love within you, and you create your enemy within, you also begin to see enemies around you when there aren’t. No matter your material comfort, intelligence/education, or status because you allow ego to control you, it can also break you and so happiness becomes illusive because you live within a chaotic comfort zone..your illusion of happiness. Should all these be taken from you, you become ego-deflated.

The moment we keep our hearts open and in tune with our spiritual being, we wil begin to love unconditionally and we will also begin to choose compassion over judgement, condemnation, isolation and segregation. We will begin to see our lives through the eyes of one, and not the fighting down of each other because we are also fighting down ourselves when we do so. Release the ego, and/to remain spiritually tuned, then when everything falls and peels off; the ego becomes dormant and not dominant…You’ll become detach yet aware because the ego will no longer dominate you…